What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy?

Dialectical behaviour therapy is an approach to mental health treatment that is often used for individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). It is a combination of cognitive behavioural therapy, which focuses on changing thoughts and behaviours, mindfulness, which helps regulate emotions, and interpersonal therapy, which helps people learn to manage their relationships.
Individuals learn to identify their emotions and manage them in healthy ways. DBT also enables individuals to understand why they have such extreme emotional responses to situations and what they can do to self-regulate.

How Can DBT Work?

Dialectical behaviour therapy is based on the idea that people with borderline personality disorder are often struggling with an internal struggle between different parts of themselves. The therapist teaches them to manage this internal struggle by identifying which parts of themselves are fighting and why they're fighting. The goal is to reconcile those parts of themselves so they can make decisions in a more healthy way. DBT teaches effective skills which helps people better communicate how they're feeling and get their needs met in healthy ways.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a way of paying attention to the present moment, without judgement. It helps individuals focus on being present while acknowledging thoughts, feelings and behaviours as they happen.

Distress Tolerance

The goal of distress tolerance is to help you become less sensitive to the stressors in your life, and to give you the ability to endure and cope with overwhelming feelings when you're in a crisis.

Emotional Regulation

Emotion regulation is the ability to manage your own emotions so that they do not control your thoughts and behaviours and to reduce the frequency, intensity, and duration of negative emotions.

Interpersonal Effectiveness

By improving interpersonal skills, individuals are better able to establish and maintain relationships with other people. They do this while maintaining self-respect and communicating their need.

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious mental illness that affects how you think, feel, and behave. People with BPD have difficulty regulating their emotions, which causes them to experience negative feelings like anger, anxiety, depression, and guilt more intensely than most. They also have problems keeping their feelings under control and tend to be impulsive in ways that can be harmful to themselves and others.

People with BPD often have intense and unstable relationships with other people. They may idealize someone one day and then quickly switch to seeing them as a villain the next day. This instability in relationships can make it very difficult for people with BPD to maintain healthy relationships with friends or romantic partners.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapists

Arian Guedes
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Arian Guedes

Registered Psychologist
$220 per hour

Location: 7015 Macleod Trail SW #400, Calgary, AB T2H 2K6

Arian has over 10 years of experience providing counselling to couples and adult individuals with anger issues, anxiety, trauma & PTSD, relationship issues, depression, identity concerns, low self-esteem, work-related issues, and more. * Limited Availability; please Contact Us to inquire.

Joel Brooks
Virtual & In-Person

Joel Brooks

Registered Psychologist
$220 per hour

Location: 7015 Macleod Trail SW #400, Calgary, AB T2H 2K6

Joel works with adults and youth living with anxiety, depression, trauma, personality disorders, emotional dysregulation, lack of self-control, developmental & adjustment concerns, and more.

Brenda Goodbody
Virtual & In-Person

Brenda Goodbody

Registered Provisional Psychologist
$200 per hour

Location: 7015 Macleod Trail SW #400, Calgary, AB T2H 2K6

Brenda works with adults and couples to overcome challenges related to anxiety, depression, trauma, grief & loss, relationship issues, self-esteem, emotion regulation, anger, neurodiversity, personality disorders, stress, and more.

Erin Patching
Virtual & In-Person

Erin Patching

Registered Provisional Psychologist
$200 per hour

Location: 2340 Pegasus Way NE #163, Calgary, AB T2E 8M5

Erin works with adults and teens navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, or major life transitions. Her approach is compassionate and collaborative, helping clients build clarity, resilience, and meaningful growth in a safe, supportive space.

Alecia Ozdan
Virtual & In-Person

Alecia Ozdan

Registered Provisional Psychologist
$200 per hour

Location: 2340 Pegasus Way NE #163, Calgary, AB T2E 8M5

Alecia works with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, anger, self-esteem and confidence issues, emotion regulation difficulties, personality-related concerns, domestic violence recovery, and more.

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